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The problem of the first message: what should I say?

Imagine you’re a pretty girl. Can you?

Now imagine you have dozens of messages a day.

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She is physically incapable to:

  • respond all of them
  • develop a relationship with each of them.

So what can you do? Probably you have your own methods, that’s great. Let me share what works for me, and you decide if it works for you. Fair?

  1. It’s a numbers game
  2. Don’t use canned responses
  3. Don’t look like you’re here forever on the dating sites
  4. Find something sexy about her (and not tits)
  5. Make fun of her
  6. Be short

I’ll focus on these in the next few posts.