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Tips on using CuteOnly. We’ve got bunch of statistics aggregated to share the most effective ways to attract women online.

Don’t copy-paste to Russian girls

Posted on August 26, 2014 by | 3 Comments

Don’t copy-paste to Russian girls. They are smart. They know you sent same text to hundreds of other girls (even if you sent it to just two:-).

Although you could copy-paste same message to every girl really fast (we are preparing the feature allowing to make it even faster), that’s not what I advise.

  • You are efficient in the amount of mail sent
  • But inefficient in the amount of feedback you get.
Why inefficient? Girls (internationally, including Russian girls) have heard so many canned openers, so they are trained to recognize them.

 

One of the oldest openers illustrated by some idiot who can’t tell polar bear from panda.

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Russian dating is a numbers game

Posted on August 11, 2014 by | 1 Comment

To find just one girl, you have to contact many. Many, many, many.

Imagine, how many women would you like to date?

  • Include those who are much older than you
  • Who are much younger
  • Who have pick nose in public or do whatever else you dislike
  • Who do hard drugs, are generally crazy etc.

How many would you like? Chances are, it’s 5%, most probably less.

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The problem of the first message: what should I say?

Posted on August 3, 2014 by | Comments Off

Imagine you’re a pretty girl. Can you?

Now imagine you have dozens of messages a day.


Photo by splitsider.com

She is physically incapable to:

  • respond all of them
  • develop a relationship with each of them.

So what can you do? Probably you have your own methods, that’s great. Let me share what works for me, and you decide if it works for you. Fair?

  1. It’s a numbers game
  2. Don’t use canned responses
  3. Don’t look like you’re here forever on the dating sites
  4. Find something sexy about her (and not tits)
  5. Make fun of her
  6. Be short

I’ll focus on these in the next few posts.

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The death of advanced search

Posted on July 4, 2014 by | Comments Off

At the moment, CuteOnly has advanced search. This is a dead user interface pattern.

Why? Because they suck. If you ever used Advanced search (not essentially here, but anywhere) you know how it feels, when you set number of parameters and get zero records found. It sucks. You may need few changes in parameters to get the suitable result. Basically, you use the trial and error technique, which is known for inefficiency. Whatever is not efficient, is dead.
Instead, we use filters.
Instead of trial and error, you can predict how many girls you find. You estimate that checking 18-22 shows ~2000 profiles. That is effective.  

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