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Love and crime: Fighting scam in the dating scene
Brides from Russia and former Soviet Union countries are still very popular in the West. While at the same time more and more Russian girls would like to marry a foreigner. But as the industry expands it attracts increasing number of scammers that want to make money on other people's feelings. CuteOnly CEO Nikolay Pokrovsky tells about the countermeasures they take at CuteOnly against scammers and gives advice on how to recognize scammers in the altered present day situation.
Not so long ago Russian girls were heading West in search of material welfare, and their marriages were more of a business deal than a love affair. The good news is that nowadays welfare could be attained here in Russia. So contemporary Russian women are not so much after the prosperity, but rather after the feelings of love and affection that are so hard to find in their homeland. According to the population census of 2002 there are 10 million less men in Russia than women. Due to the devaluation of family values most Russian men are not family oriented. Thus Russian belles are forced to seek husbands in the western world where men are traditionally more inclined to build strong families — women want a good marriage and kids born in love.
On the other hand, with the expansion of the Internet it became a lot easier for Russian women to get acquainted with foreign men. If earlier Russian Internet dating was limited to go-between marriage agencies, and such were quite often light-fingered, then now most women can access the web independently from home, college or office. It opens a great opportunity for Internet communities such as CuteOnly where Russian girls can post their profiles without having to visit CuteOnly office. As a result of this, the number of active female customers of CuteOnly has increased from a few hundred to tens of thousands in less than 2 years.
Why Scams Are Out Of Touch
But unfortunately the growth of the industry couldn't be overlooked by criminals. The underdeveloped legal base of cyber crimes in Russia and the complexity of proving such crimes have made it possible for scammers to extort rather large sums of money from westerners without being afraid of criminal prosecution. Here are some of the key factors that hinder justice:
So, if the money has been sent to a scammer, it's practically impossible to get it back. Therefore the only effective measure is to apply our best efforts to prevent the crime. At CuteOnly we endeavor that in two directions:
Customers of other Russian dating websites that do not practice such defense procedures can secure themselves from scammers by remembering three warning signs characteristic for 90% of all scam attempts:
And finally to minimize the risks just obey one simple rule: never give cash! Do you know why scammers prefer Western Union? Because once the transfer has been received it's impossible to get the money back. After all, if you're growing so fond of your lady and you want her to come for a visit, you can order the airfare for her and pay it with a credit card.
Good luck dating!!!